Yep, the entire human race has a mind that drifts to the gutter at least some times. Eyes glued to the screen during that Game of Thrones scene yes, the one where Theon Greyjoy gets naked with two drop-dead queens? Hand travel between your legs at the thought of a multi-person orgy? Why can group sex be so hot? The idea of multiple people wanting to have sex with you is part of the turn on.
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While the physical side of sex is obviously an important one, fantasy and imagination are often overlooked but can be equally as beneficial to a healthy sex life. Female fantasies, especially, are often kept private and even now, when people are increasingly more open about sex, some are considered too risque to share. Crave sex with a stranger or being tied up? From being pinned down to the more extreme aspects of sexual domination, including BDSM and rape, domination is highly arousing for many women.
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Sexual fantasies come in all different shapes and sizes. For others, it could mean hanging a ceiling sex swing , grabbing some handcuffs , securing a blindfold , and buying leather lingerie. But remember, no matter how elaborate your sexual fantasy is, every sexual act in and out of the bedroom should start with a conversation—and yup, this means you should be having the sex talk with your partner regularly.
Other estimates have been much higher think low 90s , but the survey we cited also found that the most common fantasies women have during masturbation tend to be about their current partners or exes, and involve internet erotica or BDSM. Investigating and acknowledging the endless array of female fantasies helps us see that women and female-identified folks are more sexually creative than we give them credit for. Viewing them as people with their own uniquely pervy and exciting desires helps us unravel the common—though mistaken—assumption that women are the more frigid gender.